Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Family pictures!

We've been wanting to get new family pictures for a while, but just never got it done. Then Cody's cousin Stacy Ashley offered to do pictures for us, she is starting her own photography business! These were taken at the Rexburg nature park. We think they turned out great! Here are some of my favorites:







You can see more of Stacy's work here:

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Cloth diaper types


Basic types of cloth diapers:

Every cloth diaper has two main parts: an absorbent inner material and a waterproof outer material.

Flat diaper – these are the oldest, most basic diapers still used today. They are simply a large square of a single layer of cotton fabric that you fold up to use as a diaper. Flats can be fastened on your baby using diaper pins or a Snappi, which is pictured below. Flats can also be simply folded into a rectangle and placed inside a diaper cover, which is how I use them. Flats are often sold as one single size to use from birth to potty training, but some brands offer a small and large size. A diaper cover is needed to make these waterproof. They do require folding, but they wash and dry very easily since they are a single layer. These are typically the least expensive cloth diapers, generally $1-2 each.
      

Some popular options:

Prefold diaper – one day someone took a flat diaper and folded it into layers and sewed it down, giving these the name “prefold.” It does still require some folding to put on your baby. Prefolds can be fastened on your baby using diaper pins or a Snappi. Prefolds can also simply be folded in thirds and laid in a diaper cover. Traditionally prefolds are sold in two sizes, infant and standard, though many brands now offer more custom sizes, generally newborn, small, medium, and large. Custom sizes reduce bulk because they fit your baby better. A diaper cover is needed to make these waterproof. Prefolds generally wash easily but take a little longer to dry than flats. Prefolds are another inexpensive option, generally about $2-3 each.

Some popular options:

Fitted diaper – basically someone took a prefold, sewed it into a diaper shape, and added elastic around the legs and snaps or Velcro as closures. Fitteds come in every size, or as adjustable one-size diapers. A diaper cover is needed to make these waterproof. Fitteds require no folding or pinning, but may be harder to get clean than prefolds, and take longer to dry. Fitteds vary widely in price depending on the brand, but a reasonable price is about $8-15 each.

Some popular options:

Diaper cover – a waterproof shell that covers any of the above diapers and fastens using Velcro or snaps. Diaper covers are available in every size or in adjustable one-size options. Generally made from polyurethane laminated fabric, referred to as PUL. Diaper covers are generally $8-15 each.
Velcro-closure diaper cover, with a “snap-down rise” to adjust the size.

Some popular options:

Pocket diaper – take a diaper cover and add a stay-dry liner to the inside with a pocket opening at the back where you put in an absorbent insert. After you “stuff” them, pocket diapers go on just like a disposable and fasten with either Velcro or snaps. Pocket diapers wash and dry pretty easily because you separate the insert from the cover, and they are easy to put on baby because they’re one simple piece (rather than having to fasten on a diaper then a diaper cover). They are also customizable because you can stuff them however you choose (i.e. doubling up inserts for naps or nighttime). Pockets come in sizes or adjustable one-size. Pocket diapers cost about $15-20 each.
  

Some popular options:

All-in-Ones (abbreviated AIOs) – these are most like a disposable. The absorbent inner is sewn in to the waterproof outer. These are considered the easiest to use, but they can be difficult to get clean and take a long time to dry since multiple layers of absorbent fabric are all sewn together into the cover. AIOs come in either sizes or one-size. AIOs are also generally the most expensive, at about $20-30 each.


Some popular options:

All-in-Twos (AI2s) – this diaper has two parts, a waterproof cover and an absorbent insert that usually snaps into the cover. Unlike AIOs, these are easier to clean and quicker to dry. Unlike a pocket, you can snap out a wet insert and snap in clean one, reusing the cover. Similar to either a pocket or AIO, an AI2 goes on your baby in one piece, making diaper changes quick and easy. AI2s cost about $15-18 per cover and $4-9 per insert.

Some popular options:

How do I choose which diapers?
This is the hardest part of cloth diapering. Really! They are easy to use, easy to wash, and they work so well. But there are not only the different diaper types I’ve just explained, there are numerous brands available for each type. This is what makes cloth diapering overwhelming at first. The main factor that dictates your choice is your budget, although most any option will be cheaper than using disposables unless you simply buy too many diapers (which happens more often than you might think! Cloth diapers are cute and fun, and there are so many options. Make a plan before you buy and stick to a budget!). Know that not every diaper will work for every baby. Different brands are cut differently, and fit different shaped babies. The best thing to do is buy a couple of each type you’re interested in and try them. Find what works well for you, and then buy more! A great way to try out different diapers is to buy used. Check out craigslist and get on DiaperSwappers.com (the Marketplace there is a great place to buy and sell diapers). For me, just from reading online I thought I would love this one certain diaper, but it didn't work for us when I actually tried it. Luckily I'd only bought 2, and found them used, and then I resold them. So, don't buy a whole set of one diaper until you've tried them.

How can I afford to spend hundreds of dollars on diapers?
The high up-front cost of cloth diapering turns many people away, but building your stash slowly will help offset that. Remember that you will spend more money using disposables, it's just spread out over time. If you’re expecting, I would recommend starting to save money now, then buying cloth diapers when your baby is born (buying a lot of diapers while pregnant is not the best idea because you don’t know what size and shape your baby will be). Disposable diapers will cost you at least $50/month, so if you can start setting that aside now, you’ll be able to buy cloth diapers when your baby is born. Even if you don't end up liking cloth diapers, you'll at least have worked the cost of diapers into your budget and can use what you've saved towards other baby gear :) If you're in serious financial struggles, check out this article by Jenn Labit, creator of bumGenius and founder of Cotton Babies: Almost free diapers: How to diaper your baby when you can't afford disposable diapers or cloth diapers. There is also a program called Giving Diapers, Giving Hope whose mission is "To provide free cloth diapers to low income families to help alleviate the cost of diapering their children which will help them use their money for other essentials." One thing that's helped me save money on my diapers is to sign up for emails and newsletters from online cloth diaper stores. This way you'll easily find out about sales. Chances are with a little patience and effort you'll be able to find that diaper you like on sale rather than paying full price.

How many do I need?
It’s best to wash your diapers every other day, so you need enough for 2 days. For young babies that means 24-30 diapers. For older babies you'll only need 18-24. So: if you are using a system with a diaper plus a waterproof cover, you need about 24 diapers and 6-10 covers, because covers can be reused until they get poop on them. If you are using pockets or all-in-ones you need about 24 diapers.

One-size diapers
Adjustable one-size diapers are very popular, but they are really one-size fits most. Generally one-size diapers fit well from 10-30 pounds, which means they don’t work for most newborns. Also if you have a big, fast-growing kid, or your child potty-trains late, they may not fit all the way until potty-training. They are a great option, though, because they save you from buying a whole set of diapers in each new size as your child grows. You can either buy newborn diapers to use until your baby grows into one-size diapers, or use disposables for the first couple months. One-size diapers adjust either through a snap-down rise or adjustable leg elastic.

My favorites:
My first favorites were flat diapers pad-folded (or folded into a rectangle) inside Flip diaper covers. Flats are very trim and my Flip covers have never leaked. Then I bought a few bumGenius pocket diapers on sale and fell in love with them. They go on so easy which is great when Claire is kicking and screaming. Also the stay-dry lining makes it so she can go 3-4 hours between diaper changes. When she's wearing a flat, and sitting in wet cotton, I need to change her at least every 2 hours. By shopping sales, seconds (second-quality diapers with cosmetic flaws), and used, I've been able to build a full stash of 18 bumGenius pockets for an average cost of about $11.50 per diaper (rather than retail price of $17.95). I love them. They are also the only diaper that has lasted a full 12 hours overnight without leaking. For that I stuff them with the included one-size microfiber insert and the microfiber doubler as well as a Thirsties hemp insert. Hemp is a favorite among cloth-diaper users. It is a little slower to absorb than microfiber or cotton, but it holds a lot of liquid. When paired with microfiber or cotton it is a great solution for overnight or heavy-wetters.

(Disclaimer: I am not receiving any compensation from any website or manufacturer mentioned. I've written this for information only, based on my experience and opinions.) 

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Cloth diaper basics


Why I cloth diaper:
Using cheap store-brand disposable diapers, diapering a baby from birth to age 2½ (average potty-training age) will cost about $1,000. Using Pampers or Huggies, it will cost you about $1,600. That is a lot of money to spend on trash. It amounts to over 6,500 diapers going to a landfill to sit for who knows how long until they decompose someday. I used disposables for Claire’s first year and didn’t think twice about it. When I did the math and decided to switch to cloth, it really grossed me out. I wasted so much money and created so much trash. Depending on the type of diapers you use, cloth diapering from birth to potty-training costs anywhere from $200-800, and those diapers can usually then be resold or used to diaper future children. I love cloth because it saves me money, the diapers are cute, I never have to make a last-minute trip to the store for disposables, and I’m contributing less trash to the landfill.

Isn’t cloth gross? Hard to use? Old-fashioned?
Cloth diapering is no more gross than using disposables. Many people think cloth diapers are gross because of dealing with poop, but when you have a baby you have to deal with poop, period. Disposable diapers are simply not as good as cloth at containing the poop. Cloth is made to absorb, paper isn’t. And that’s what disposables are: paper and plastic. Blow outs are common. It’s much easier to wash poop out of diapers than have to wash your baby’s clothes and give them a bath every time they have a blow out. I have never had poop leak from a cloth diaper. I have had a pee leak, simply because I forgot to change her soon enough and the diaper was full. Cloth diapers are amazingly easy to use, with today’s modern diaper options. I don’t even own a diaper pin. I was most worried that they would be too hard, but it’s been no problem. Many modern cloth diapers go on just like a disposable, and fasten on with Velcro. Instead of throwing them away, just wash them!

What about the poop?
Before a baby starts solids (around 4-6 months), you don’t have to worry about the poop at all. It is water-soluble and will wash away, I promise. After a baby starts solids, one solution is to use flushable diaper liners. These catch the poop and you just dump them in the toilet. Another option is to buy a diaper sprayer. This attaches to your toilet so you can spray off any poo and not have to dunk and swish your diapers. I use flushable liners, they’re great.

How do I wash them?
A basic wash routine is this:
(Using the highest water setting)
1. Cold rinse with no detergent. This rinses away any poo and helps prevent stains.
2. Long, hot wash with detergent then a warm or cold rinse (I use my “heavy duty” setting)
3. Extra rinse (warm or cold) with no detergent
I use Tide Free and Gentle detergent, but there are many cloth diaper recommended detergents out there. Most companies recommend using detergent without enzymes, brighteners, whiteners, dyes, or perfumes, because any of those can leave a residue on your diapers. This is also why you should not use dryer sheets or fabric softener. Over time this detergent residue will build up and your diapers will lose absorbency and begin repelling liquid rather than soaking it in. The solution is to “strip” your diapers, or wash them in hot water with about a tablespoon of Dawn dish detergent then rinse, rinse, rinse until you see no suds in the water. The problem with “cloth diaper safe” detergents is that they don’t work for everyone as far as getting diapers clean. I use Tide because I’d rather have clean, useable diapers, and worry about build-up if it happens.

Website resources:
Store website with lots of information and pictures of babies in cloth diapers: www.greenmountaindiapers.com

My favorite cloth diaper stores:

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Baby sign language

A few months ago I checked out Baby Signing Time from the library two different times. Claire loved watching it. I've been sporadic about using signs since then. A few days ago I was feeding Claire lunch, and signed "eat," and she signed "eat" back! I thought it must be a fluke...until she did it again! She's been using "eat" pretty consistently...it's kind of amazing. She doesn't have any words yet, so it's so cool that she can talk to us! I often think of her as just a baby...this woke me up to the fact that she really is learning. And I ordered our own copy of Baby Signing Time on Amazon this morning :-)

Adventures in cloth diapering

I got my first cloth diapers October 13th and I actually really enjoy cloth diapering! The wash isn't too much of a hassle. The hardest part is just figuring out what works for me and Claire. So far I've tried:

-Fuzzibunz and Sunbaby one-size pocket diapers, bought used off of Craigslist. I thought I'd love these but it just didn't work out. They're annoying to stuff, kind of hard to size, and the inserts get bunched up between Claire's legs, causing leaks. I'm trying to resell these.
-Econobum covers and prefolds, bought new from Cotton Babies. These have worked great for us, but they're not my favorite. The covers have snap closures and they're hard for me to fasten on Claire while she's wiggling and screaming. I don't love the size of the prefolds, but they are very absorbent. The covers have never leaked. I'm hanging on to these as back ups.
-Thirsties Duo Wrap diaper cover, bought new from Amazon. Really like this one so far. Velcro closure, so it's easy on, and I've yet to have a leak, even when her diaper is soaking underneath.
-Imagine diaper covers from Nicki's Diapers. I really wanted to love these, they're only $7.95/each and a nice thick PUL (waterproof fabric), however the back elastic left red marks on Claire's back and fastening them any looser they gapped around her legs. I sent these back today (they have a great 15-day try-wash-return policy).
-Imagine pocket diapers. I like these so far. The inserts are bigger and wider than with the other pockets I tried, so I haven't noticed a problem with the bunching. The fleece lining is soft and thick. Velcro is sturdy and easy to use. Though they are very similar to the Imagine covers, I didn't have the same problem with red marks, probably due to the soft fleece lining.

Today I bought 4 used covers off of DiaperSwappers.com.
-2 Flip covers (by Cotton Babies), one-size, in blue and orange
-1 Bummis Super Lite, medium, in green
-1 Thirsties Duo Wrap, size 2, in rose

As far as under the covers, my sister sold me her old prefolds for a steal :) They are working well so far. I've also been using Bummis flushable liners, which have been great for easy poo cleanup.

My wash routine, for anyone interested, is this:
Short cycle on cold/cold, no detergent
Long heavy-duty cycle on hot/cold, with Tide Free & Gentle filled to the 1 line and 1 scoop Sun Oxy
Short cycle on warm/cold, with Ecover fabric softener <--this stuff is amazing! Recommended by moms on DiaperSwappers.com, and it really works, without affecting the absorbency of the diapers like most fabric softeners.
Then I line dry my covers and put all my prefolds and inserts in the dryer on medium.